Radical Transparency
We believe sunlight is the best disinfectant. Here's how real dating behavior looks on ForReal, broken down by group. No fake numbers. No marketing spin.
Male, Age 18-25
1 members
0.0
Avg conversation requests sent
0.0
Avg conversation requests received
0.0
Avg requests rejected by responder
0.0
Avg message exchanges per conversation
0.0
Avg conversations ending in dates
0%
Percent of conversations ending in dates
0.0h
Avg response time of initiating user
0.0h
Avg response time of responding user
0.0
Avg implicitly ended by initiator (slow response)
0.0
Avg implicitly ended by responder (slow response)
0.0
Avg explicitly ended by initiator
0.0
Avg explicitly ended by responder
Female, Age 18-25
3 members
0.0
Avg conversation requests sent
0.7
Avg conversation requests received
0.0
Avg requests rejected by responder
0.7
Avg message exchanges per conversation
0.0
Avg conversations ending in dates
0.0%
Percent of conversations ending in dates
0.0h
Avg response time of initiating user
0.0h
Avg response time of responding user
0.0
Avg implicitly ended by initiator (slow response)
0.0
Avg implicitly ended by responder (slow response)
0.0
Avg explicitly ended by initiator
0.3
Avg explicitly ended by responder
Male, Age 26-35
4 members
0.0
Avg conversation requests sent
0.0
Avg conversation requests received
0.0
Avg requests rejected by responder
0.0
Avg message exchanges per conversation
0.0
Avg conversations ending in dates
0%
Percent of conversations ending in dates
0.0h
Avg response time of initiating user
0.0h
Avg response time of responding user
0.0
Avg implicitly ended by initiator (slow response)
0.0
Avg implicitly ended by responder (slow response)
0.0
Avg explicitly ended by initiator
0.0
Avg explicitly ended by responder
Female, Age 26-35
5 members
0.0
Avg conversation requests sent
0.0
Avg conversation requests received
0.0
Avg requests rejected by responder
0.0
Avg message exchanges per conversation
0.0
Avg conversations ending in dates
0%
Percent of conversations ending in dates
0.0h
Avg response time of initiating user
0.0h
Avg response time of responding user
0.0
Avg implicitly ended by initiator (slow response)
0.0
Avg implicitly ended by responder (slow response)
0.0
Avg explicitly ended by initiator
0.0
Avg explicitly ended by responder
Male, Age 36-45
3 members
0.0
Avg conversation requests sent
0.0
Avg conversation requests received
0.0
Avg requests rejected by responder
0.0
Avg message exchanges per conversation
0.0
Avg conversations ending in dates
0%
Percent of conversations ending in dates
0.0h
Avg response time of initiating user
0.0h
Avg response time of responding user
0.0
Avg implicitly ended by initiator (slow response)
0.0
Avg implicitly ended by responder (slow response)
0.0
Avg explicitly ended by initiator
0.0
Avg explicitly ended by responder
Female, Age 36-45
1 members
0.0
Avg conversation requests sent
0.0
Avg conversation requests received
0.0
Avg requests rejected by responder
0.0
Avg message exchanges per conversation
0.0
Avg conversations ending in dates
0%
Percent of conversations ending in dates
0.0h
Avg response time of initiating user
0.0h
Avg response time of responding user
0.0
Avg implicitly ended by initiator (slow response)
0.0
Avg implicitly ended by responder (slow response)
0.0
Avg explicitly ended by initiator
0.0
Avg explicitly ended by responder
Male, Age 46-55
1 members
0.0
Avg conversation requests sent
0.0
Avg conversation requests received
0.0
Avg requests rejected by responder
0.0
Avg message exchanges per conversation
0.0
Avg conversations ending in dates
0%
Percent of conversations ending in dates
0.0h
Avg response time of initiating user
0.0h
Avg response time of responding user
0.0
Avg implicitly ended by initiator (slow response)
0.0
Avg implicitly ended by responder (slow response)
0.0
Avg explicitly ended by initiator
0.0
Avg explicitly ended by responder
Female, Age 46-55
1 members
0.0
Avg conversation requests sent
0.0
Avg conversation requests received
0.0
Avg requests rejected by responder
0.0
Avg message exchanges per conversation
0.0
Avg conversations ending in dates
0%
Percent of conversations ending in dates
0.0h
Avg response time of initiating user
0.0h
Avg response time of responding user
0.0
Avg implicitly ended by initiator (slow response)
0.0
Avg implicitly ended by responder (slow response)
0.0
Avg explicitly ended by initiator
0.0
Avg explicitly ended by responder
Male, Age 56-65
2 members
1.0
Avg conversation requests sent
0.0
Avg conversation requests received
1.0
Avg requests rejected by responder
1.0
Avg message exchanges per conversation
0.0
Avg conversations ending in dates
0.0%
Percent of conversations ending in dates
0.0h
Avg response time of initiating user
0.0h
Avg response time of responding user
0.0
Avg implicitly ended by initiator (slow response)
0.0
Avg implicitly ended by responder (slow response)
0.5
Avg explicitly ended by initiator
0.0
Avg explicitly ended by responder
How Stats Are Calculated
- 14-day rolling window: All statistics on this page reflect activity from the last 14 days only. Data older than 14 days is excluded from these calculations. Active conversations that span more than 14 days are still kept.
- Requests sent/received: Conversations initiated or received in the last 14 days.
- Rejected / Passed Over: Pending requests declined or skipped in the last 14 days.
- Avg message exchanges: Total messages sent and received in the last 14 days divided by total conversations.
- % Ending in Dates: Conversations ending in "Met in Person" divided by all ended conversations (14-day window).
- Implicitly ended: Auto-ended due to 48 hours of no response. Counts against the non-responder.
- Explicitly ended: Manually ended by one party using the dropdown reason.
- Response times: Currently computed from overall user averages. Per-conversation response time tracking coming soon.